Why do we constantly create new stress-inducing environments? Right from when you're a baby you need to put yourself to good use. You need to have a purpose, a reason. When we're young and carefree you're told to have dreams, and then you're told that those cannot be your dreams. They have decided your dreams for you. And if by luck you happen to have a dream that matches their idea of you, then they chalk out a path for that dream completely missing out an important point. Your dreams can change, and it's not wrong if they do.